Girlfriend keeps making excuses not to see me?
Have been dating a girl for a few months now.
She acts entirely interested in me.. bu then again, there’s always a weird switch around.
Like we rarely ever get to see eachother as it is..
and every time we have the chance to see eachother, she makes some excuse on how she can’t meet with me [we're both teenagers and we both don't have cars.. i'm 19, yes, don't have a car.. never wanted one because i bike and skate everywhere i go]
she lives about 25 minutes away..
but when i offer to give someone gas, she makes a new excuse on how that won’t work.
I went to the beach with her one day and her, her friend in whom lives with her, and her brother decided they wanted to go to malls each of those days and shop.. not once did they get in the water or tan etc.
She made excuses the entire time to spend more time with two people she lives with than to spend time with me.
I ditched going to the ocean for a weak just now in order to spend time with her, and in return she heads off to Tennessee with her brother to go to dollywood.
I ask if I can tag along [her brother has a **** ton of money and is generous with it] and she says that he probably wouldn’t want me to go.
Although they’re taking their friend who lives with them.
I ask her to simply ask and she continues to make excuses.
They all plan on going to the beach after they get back from Dollywood and I ask for them to pick me up so I can spend time with her and she continues to make excuses.
We had a ton of issues occur when we first started dating with her and past exes.
I don’t really know if I should continue dating her.. It seems like things can get so much better but when all begins to look super good, it shoots straight back down with stupid ****.
I know i’m probably being stupid.. but… i don’t like relationships.. when i date someone i plan on dating them and having things go swell.. i’m sort of sick of counting girls down on my fingers.
I’ll stay single for years at a time but when i come to date someone i try to make it work out because it took a ton for me to date them in the first place.
So what do each of you think?
Should I just give up and grin about it and just mark her down as another failure who wasn’t worth the time or is there anything I might try or talk to her about to get her head straight.
I’m very literal and i’ve spoken to her about this multiple times and all seems to go great as said for a short time, but then it’s like she forgets not even a few days later and i’m just left highly irritated.
Gabriel
Raymond
your girlfriend is a concieted little ***** who takes you for granted
dont talk to her for a while and watch her come crawling back to you.
Laurie
she’s messing you about, your better off without her hun x
Randy
ugh. i did this to my boyfriend today because i was at a funeral and he thought it was an excuse.
so he broke up with me.
but good luck to you.
Tamara
dude, you’re 19…chill out and go mack ******…you should have about three ****** on your bench at all times. what the#^ is dollywood?!?! You need a car too…chicks don’t want to be rollin’ out with a guy on a bike. Don’t let her know you’re irritated, just don’t contact her for a few days. She will eventually want your attention and go out of her way to see you. I know it is probably tough, but you gotta be strong and let that trick know that you are not an easy catch and can get at other ******. It is ok to be dating three ****** at the same time, if they find out about each other, they will only respect you more.
Joan
I’m sorry my friend, but she’s playing games with you. She knows that you’re interested in going places and doing things with her, but she only wants to do them with you when she feels like it. She’s stringing you along.
If you wanting to be in a relationship is what’s keeping you with her, then you need to reevaluate your standards. She’s not worthy of your devotion and willingness to make a relationship work.
I think you should write this one off as a failure – especially since you’ve already talked to her and it hasn’t done much good. If she’d rather hang out with her brother and roommates, let her. Once you’re gone, she’ll realize what she had.
Daniel
end it with her> it seems like your not happy with her and happiness is a big part
your problems with just grow
find someone else